One brain. Two paths. The only thing that changes is whether anyone sees it in time.
I live in Boulder, Colorado. Last week, a local investigative piece titled The Jail that Replaced Boulder County’s Mental Health System got my attention.
It was about the Boulder County Jail – and how, over the years, it has quietly become the county’s largest mental health facility. More than 60% of the people housed there have a diagnosed mental illness. Many arrived in crisis. Some had been waiting weeks or months for a hospital bed that never came. Some were placed in isolation, which research shows makes mental illness worse.
One woman – I’ll call her E.M., as the article does – held a job, attended community college, and lived independently. She also had a serious psychiatric condition. When her mental health provider dropped her for missing appointments, cutting off her medication, the crisis that followed landed her in jail. She spent nearly two years there.
The article is about Boulder. But I’ve seen versions of this story play out everywhere. I’m a counselor and ADHD specialist. I’ve spent more than two decades working with children, families, educators, and clinicians – and what the article doesn’t say, but what I’ve spent years thinking about and honestly trying to change, is how many of the people cycling through that system were never properly identified, understood, or supported long before any crisis ever began.
What we know about ADHD and incarceration
The research here is consistent and sobering.
Adults in prison are three times more likely to have ADHD than people in the general population. Among youth in detention, the rate is even higher – roughly five times what you’d expect. One meta-analysis put the prevalence of ADHD in adult prison populations at around 25%. Another recent estimate, using stricter diagnostic criteria, landed at about 1 in 12.
Whatever the exact number, the direction is clear: ADHD is dramatically overrepresented behind bars.
This isn’t because ADHD causes crime. It doesn’t. But untreated ADHD – the kind that was never named, never understood, never supported – creates conditions where things go wrong in compounding ways. Impulsivity without skills to manage it. Emotional dysregulation without anyone to help build those skills. Poor frustration tolerance, difficulty reading social cues, trouble planning ahead. Add poverty, trauma, and a school system that interpreted those struggles as laziness, lack of motivation, and defiance – and you have a pipeline, not a coincidence.
The child who couldn’t sit still in second grade. The teenager who got suspended more than he learned. The adult who lost jobs, relationships, housing – not because he didn’t care, but because his brain was working against him in ways no one ever helped him understand.
That’s not a criminal profile. That’s an unmet need that followed someone into adulthood.
The silence is the problem
My work is built on a simple premise: when children struggle, the problem is almost never a lack of trying. It’s a gap between what their brain can do right now and what the situation demands.
ADHD is not a failed version of normal. It is a different brain – one that processes the world differently, regulates attention and emotion differently, and requires a different kind of support.
When that support doesn’t come – no diagnosis, no framework, no one at home or school who understands what’s actually happening – the child fills the silence with their own explanation. I’m bad. I’m lazy. I can’t do anything right. Those stories don’t disappear. They compound.
And the system compounds them further. A classroom that punishes what it can’t explain. A discipline system that escalates. A mental health system – as the Boulder article makes painfully clear – that is underfunded, fragmented, and stretched so thin that people fall through gaps the size of chasms.
By the time someone ends up in a jail cell, there have been a hundred earlier moments when a different outcome was possible.
The other end of the same spectrum
Here’s what makes this so hard to sit with.
Research consistently finds that roughly 29% of entrepreneurs have ADHD. People with ADHD are estimated to be three times more likely to start their own businesses than their neurotypical peers. The same traits that create problems in a rigid, compliance-driven environment – risk tolerance, big-picture thinking, hyperfocus, the ability to hold ten ideas at once and act on them before others have finished deliberating – can become genuine assets in the right context.
The same brain. Different outcome.
What accounts for the difference? It’s not smarter parents or a harder work ethic. It’s whether someone had a framework. Whether there was an adult who understood what they were seeing. Whether the school connected with the family. Whether the family had access to information and support.
This is what I mean when I say ADHD is not the risk. The silence is.
What treating the system looks like
The Boulder article ends without resolution. E.M. left her assisted living home in May and went missing. Her mother spent two weeks calling hospitals. E.M. was eventually found outside in Denver, sunburned, sick, sleeping on the ground. She wasn’t arrested this time. But the systems that failed her – the gaps in care, the fragmented support, the jails filling the space where treatment should have been – remain intact.
That’s the weight of what happens when we treat the symptom and not the pattern. When we respond to the crisis and skip the years before it.
The kids I work with – and the families trying to support them – are navigating a version of this every day, at a much earlier stage. The stakes look smaller. They’re not.
What they need is a circle of support that actually holds: clinicians who connect families to frameworks, not just diagnoses. Parents who are coached, not just informed. Teachers who are trained to understand what ADHD actually looks like – not as defiance, but as a brain asking for help in the only language it has.
None of that is simple. But it is knowable. And it is possible.
The child in the classroom who can’t sit still is not a future cautionary tale. That child is showing you something. The question is whether anyone is positioned to see it – and to respond in a way that changes what comes next.


When we look at the cost to society, it is clear that putting in appropriate supports in schools and medical practice for students and families is far cheaper than supporting the adults in prison or programs (i.e. social security disability insurance and other services) where the taxpayer also pays. We can support people for the first 21 years of their lives or for the next 60 or so.
This is a great article to share as it opens the eyes towards a closer look at mental health , there is such a huge correlation between mental health and incarceration , it’s just so sad that the systems don’t want to recognize this. I wish people would understand that guided correctly ADHD can be a super power.
Unbelievably on point, stay encouraged. And if you have faith pray for me.