How the ADHD Conversation Has Changed – and What Hasn’t

A decade of reflection with Debbie Reber Ten years ago, conversations about neurodivergence sounded very different. In this reflective conversation with Debbie Reber, we look at what’s changed, what still feels hard for families (especially in schools), and why understanding has to keep evolving. I was recently a guest on Debbie Reber’s Tilt Parenting Podcast … Read more

The Marshmallow Test, Revisited

Why trust and connection matter more than willpower. Many of us have heard of the famous “marshmallow test,” where children were offered a choice: eat one marshmallow now, or wait and get two later. For years, this study was held up as proof that self-control, the ability to delay gratification, was the key to future … Read more

Helping Families Navigate ADHD, Medication, and Support

Interview with Psychiatrist Dr. Marcy Cooper: I recently sat down with Dr. Marcy Cooper, a child and adolescent psychiatrist, to talk about how she works with families managing ADHD—and what she wishes more people understood about psychiatric treatment. Below is an excerpt from our conversation. Cindy: Dr. Cooper, I’m so glad to share your insights with … Read more

Why an ADHD Diagnosis Isn’t a Label – It’s a Lens

Understanding ADHD: Why Diagnosis Matters More Than You Think (Part 1 of 2) This is Part 1 of a two-part series on the importance of accurate ADHD diagnosis. Today, we’ll explore why naming ADHD is not a label that limits a child, but a light that helps families understand behavior, reduce shame, and access meaningful … Read more

Productivity is Hard with ADHD – How to Make It Easier

I’ve had the pleasure of knowing Dr. Ari Tuckman for many years, and I’m always grateful for the clarity, practicality, and empathy he brings to conversations about ADHD. A renowned psychologist, author, and international speaker, Ari is someone I turn to often- for his insights, his research-backed wisdom, and his ability to make even the … Read more

Supporting Arabic-Speaking Parents

Bridging Cultures, Empowering Families When I first wrote 8 Keys to Parenting Children with ADHD, my goal was simple: to offer compassionate, practical guidance to parents navigating the complex and often overwhelming journey of raising children with ADHD and Executive Function challenges. Over the years, I’ve been humbled to see the book reach families far … Read more

Beyond the ADHD Diagnosis: What Kids with ADHD Really Need – Response to The NY Times Article

You may have seen the recent New York Times article by Paul Tough: “Have We Been Thinking About A.D.H.D. All Wrong?” As someone who has spent nearly two decades working with parents, educators, and professionals to support children with ADHD and Executive Function challenges, I appreciate the broader discussion this article invites—but it doesn’t tell the whole story. … Read more

Six Benefits of Parent-Centered Coaching

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Parenting is hard. Parenting neurodiverse children is even harder. I have helped thousands of parents turn their chaotic, stressful homes into ones where love, connection, and compassion have helped their children thrive and the whole family enjoy happiness and peaceful times. When children are struggling with the very real challenges that accompany ADHD, it is … Read more

ADHD and Dyslexia – They Often Walk Together

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As many of you know, it is not unusual for people with ADHD to struggle with reading skill development. In fact, of people who are diagnosed with ADHD, 30-40% will struggle with dyslexia.  While many children seem to pick up reading with little effort, most of these children need more guidance and practice to become … Read more