The Marshmallow Test, Revisited

Why trust and connection matter more than willpower. Many of us have heard of the famous “marshmallow test,” where children were offered a choice: eat one marshmallow now, or wait and get two later. For years, this study was held up as proof that self-control, the ability to delay gratification, was the key to future … Read more

Gentle vs. Tough: A Better Model for Parenting Kids Who Struggle

Calm and Connected Parenting Is Not the Problem As an ADHD and Executive Function parenting specialist, I’ve spent decades training thousands of parents, educators, and mental health professionals around the world. My Calm and Connected model has helped families navigate the real-life messiness of raising kids with complex needs—without resorting to punishment or passivity. So … Read more

Six Benefits of Parent-Centered Coaching

APCA Spanish blog

Parenting is hard. Parenting neurodiverse children is even harder. I have helped thousands of parents turn their chaotic, stressful homes into ones where love, connection, and compassion have helped their children thrive and the whole family enjoy happiness and peaceful times. When children are struggling with the very real challenges that accompany ADHD, it is … Read more